Why we do the stupid things we do in a relationship, I don’t know.. We sometimes get caught up in the lust and go too far then forget they’re not only for you to get aroused off of.  They’re you’re love, the one who would only do those things for you.. don’t push privileges. Remember you loved her/him because they wanted to stick with you, not because of his or her body.  You’re gonna have to face the consequences and what that consequence will do to your relationship.. don’t expect an “it’s okay” because that’s just it.. it’s not okay.  People learn the hard way, so did I.. I’m not ready to face the consequences but.. I have to.